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I hope that you have been enjoying beautiful May weather and that all is well with you and your families.
Reaction to the Passion
I have not had as many lengthy, interesting, and
erudite responses to any newsletter as to my last one
dealing in depth with Mel Gibson's Passion. Whether
they hate The Passion or love it, I guess people just
love reading about it. And the really wonderful thing
was that none of the letters, whether or not they
agreed with me, were angry.
I won't belabor The Passion, but one thing I want to
point out is that Jesus refused to feel and act like a
victim. Even while undergoing humiliating public torture
and a slow, painful death, he refused to be angry at
either the Jews who clamored for his death or the
Romans who executed him. I'm sure he wanted his
death to serve as the ultimate example of what it
means to love your enemy. If Jesus could handle
extreme torture and death without succumbing to
anger or vengefulness, shouldn't the rest of us be able
to tolerate insults without getting angry or vindictive?
Shouldn't we be able to tolerate others having different
beliefs without hating them and wishing them dead?
How unfortunate it is that so many of us, including
those who claim to be his followers, have still not
learned his lesson of tolerance, and zealously promote
intolerance of "bullies."
Click here to read Izzy's previous piece about The Passion.
It is easy to find fault with the way the current
administration has handled Iraq, but one thing we can
be extremely grateful for: we live in a democracy. The
public hearings on 9-11 showed democracy in action.
The presidential administration is not above reproach
and can be called to task in front of the entire nation.
You will never see that happening in a dictatorship.
The 9-11 hearings revealed many failures within the
government that ultimately made 9-11 possible. One of
these was that the intelligence agencies avoided
profiling Muslims in order not to be accused of
insensitivity to minority groups. In other words, to
prevent hurting people's feelings, it was preferable to
allow thousands of people to die. And in the end it
brought even more shame to Muslims because of their
association with the terrorists.
The intentions of not hurting people's feelings are
understandable, but the road to hell is paved with good
intentions. For an action to be moral, it needs to
conform to the Golden Rule - treating others as you
would want to be treated. Protecting people's feelings
at all costs, while sounding like a noble goal, is contrary
to the Golden Rule and therefore immoral.
Click here to read previous newsletters. »
Of the 434 people who have so far completed the
survey, 214, or 49%, answered "yes" to
the first item, that they have an urge to have sex after
watching an erotic movie. In contrast, only 5 people, or
1%, answered "yes" to feeling an urge to injure or kill
someone after watching a violent movie.
I submit this as another piece of evidence against the
armies of researchers trying to prove that violent
entertainment causes violence in real life. If it did, we
could expect that more than 5 out of 434 participants
would feel an urge to become violent after watching
violent entertainment. After all, about half are aware of
the urge for sex after watching sex. Why aren't they
similarly stimulated after watching violence?
There is a very simple explanation. Sex is a positive
biological urge. Mother Nature wants us to have sex to
perpetuate the species, and that is why she made sex
feel so good. Violence, on the other hand, is a negative
biological need. Mother Nature wants us to avoid
violence because it causes injury and death, and that
is why she made violence painful - so we would avoid it
unless absolutely necessary. And if you're not sure
about this, ask yourself "Do I feel any urge to hurt
people after watching violent entertainment." (If your
answer is yes, you should consider making an
appointment right away with a good therapist.)
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