Bullies to Buddies™
The sensible alternative
to the anti-bully movement
Students
My name is Izzy Kalman. I am a school psychologist, and I have been teaching people how to stop being bullied for many years. If kids are constantly picking on you, I know how miserable it can make you. You have probably found that no matter how hard you try to make them stop, it isn’t working. Your school may be instructing you to tell the adults when kids bully you, but you probably discovered that when you tell on your bullies, they hate you even more and treat you worse.
It would be really wonderful if the school could actually make kids stop bullying you. But do you have brothers or sisters? If you do, there is a good chance they torment you almost every day, and everything your parents do to stop them doesn’t work. So if your parents can’t even get a couple of kids to stop bullying each other at home, how can we expect a teacher who has 30 students to stop them from bullying each other? If you need to wait for the school to make bullying disappear, you will be bullied for a very long time.
That’s the bad news. The good news is that you can get kids to stop bullying you, and you can do it all by yourself. When you understand the simple rules, no one can bully you for long and your problem goes away in a matter of days.
Bullies to Buddies™ can teach you what to do so you never suffer from bullying again! There is a manual on this website called How to Stop Being Teased and Bullied without Really Trying. It has helped many kids throughout the world, and we hope it will help you, too. There are also Spanish and Dutch translations. If kids are bullying you over the Internet, there are separate instructions. Read the article on Cyberbullying. There is another important article on How to Be a Good Sport.
There is another free manual that can help your parents and teachers. A Revolutionary Guide to Reducing Aggression between Children explains to them how they can get kids at home and in school to get along better. They will be happier, and so will you, if they follow the simple advice.
We wish you the best of luck. We hope you discover how easy it is to stop being bullied once you know the rules!
Best Wishes,
Izzy Kalman
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